| Location | Peckham |
| Age | 41 years |
| Date of Birth | 7/1962 |
| Date of Death | 10/2003 |
| Visitors | 763 since 19/06/2007 |
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My brother Dunkey passed away on the 15th October 2003 whilst waiting for a liver transplant. He was 41 years old when he passed away.
He was the only son our Mum had and she cherished the ground he walked on. She so badly misses him and is not the same since she lost him.
He left behind three children, John, Joanne and Patrick. He also left a grand-daughter called Bonnie. He also left behind the first and only love of his life, Sally. She is the mother of John and Joanne, and he loved her unconditionally. She was his childhood sweetheart and she was the only woman for him.
Dunkey was such a special person and God made sure there was not another person like him because he broke the mould when he was born. Dunkey had so much class and so many people looked up to him.
We all miss him so much, not a day goes by when he isn't on our minds. Every waking day and every sleeping night.
Me and my sister Toni remember our childhood days fondly and we will never forget him, our big brother.
This site is for anybody who has been affected by my brothers death. Please feel free to light a candle or leave a condolence.
We miss you so much Dunk, and we will never ever forget you boy. We love you more than words can say.
Rest peacefully in Gods kingdom in the stars.
Love Sharon, Dave and Family
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Love you uncle Dunkey R.I.P X
Hey Dunkey i was on this site for my friend that died and i instantly thought of you.you are my only uncle and you used to tease me so much about my Devonshire accent but I know you loved me so much me and we were so close we even used to share a bed I remember getting scared of the dark and you saying "come on kirst get in with me hurry up, its cold". I love you so much Dunkey everyone was so heartbroken when you died and im soo sorry i didn't go to your funeral but I was so young i wouldn't have been able to handle it but I said goodbye to you when you horse and carriage went past nanny's house. I love you uncle Dunky goodbye and R.I.P Kirsty xxx
5 Years On
Hello my special Uncle,
I can not believe it has been 5 years today since you passed away! It has been so coping today, been thinking about you a hell of a lot today and feel so sad that you are not here. There is so much going on down here and I wish you could be here, I know you already know about Nanny having lung cancer, pls look after her and make sure that she is safe. I worry about her so much!!!
I know i have not been on for ages, but please do not think I have forgotten you, I just have so much going on, and it is really hard finding the time to come on here.
When I woke up this morning at 3am I instantly thought of you and when I went down to get a drink, I though of you and I had a feeling that you were there with me, I think it had something to do with the dream I keep having about you showing urself to me in the kitchen in the darkness. I felt that you was there this morning and I felt that I was going to see you and I was really scared which is why I turned the light on, please dont think I dont want to see you, I am just so scared.
I miss you so much please do not forget that, and I love you more than life itself.
All my love your oldest Nephew XXXX
4 Years On
Hi Dunk,
4 years on and the pain is still so strong. It cuts deep into our hearts and today we feel all the pain once again and it is just as strong as what it was the day god took you away, 4 years ago on the 15th October 2003.
Nobody has got over your death and you are spoke about all the time. And today you are remembered by all of those that know and love you.
Keep shining down my special Uncle and remember we all love you so much more than anything in the world.
I love you so much Uncle, God Bless and sleep tight in Gods loving care up high heaven.
Love Davey XXX
grandad
grandad i cant belivee i had to say good bye for eva i didnt think this would eva happen wen you come out of hospital i thought you would be fine an marry my nan but lifes difficult some times but i dnt no y god chose you its coz you had the best of life cant believe youve gone rip untill we meet again soon an give my other nan a grandad a kiss for me you r the best man eva ill neva eva forget you no matter wot happens i luv yooouuuu soooooooo much 4 eva an eva. try to prtect us all coz your as trong man ave a nice nap untilll i wake you up meetin you again i cnt wait xxxbonnixxx
I miss you so much Uncle Dunkey
I miss you so much Dunk, more than you will ever know. You are my Mums brother and my only uncle on our side of the family. I wish you was here now to talk to, I know you won't approve of HIM. But Dunk, I do love him and I cant get over him, please help me. Please be my uncle and sort him out for me, he needs a kick up the arse to sort him out (just please dont hurt him) I love you so much mate, I miss you so much mate, please stand by me, and let us all know you are there. All my Love Davey XXX
MISSING YOU
I've just one thing to say, I miss you bruv more and more each day.
Another year has gone but the memories still carry on.
Me and Sharon miss you, cos you was our big brother to look up too.
We miss you bruv that much, it's made me and Sharon keep in touch.
We talk about you all the time, as you're always deep in our mind.
Mothers numb every day, and nothing can take that numbness away,
she talks about you all the time, she says when God took you he committed a crime.
Just remember one thing bruv,
Our love will stay with you in heaven above,
It was sent when mother let go of the messenger dove.
Love you bruv, TJ
Happy Birthday Son
John I miss you so much the day you left me was the worst day of my life. You never expect to bury your own child. But I had to. I had to bury my special boy I am so heartbroken. The day you left was the day you broke my heart. I couldnt be hurt anymore than the day I lost my boy. This time 45 years ago I was holding my baby boy, so proud and so happy. You was my first born child and my only son. This time 45 years ago my life was filled with joy and happiness but now 45 years later it is filled with pain and sorrow. You should be coming up home today and getting your card and your present and a kiss off of me, and knowing you a bollocking. Instead I am visiting your grave with flowers. Its just not right. I know Eileen is looking after you up there and I am keeping my promise I am looking after Mark for her. I hope you have meet Nanny up there and Grandad and Uncle Arthur, tell them all I love them and please can they look after my only son. Also tell Alan I love him more than words can say and he is the only man for me.
Happy Birthday Son, Mummys crying as she is doing this. I love you so much. I cherish every single hair on your head. A mothers love for her child is unconditional so please always remember I love you and remember when my time is up, I will hold you in my arms and I will never ever let you go again.
I love you dearly.
All My Love Son
Mum
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Happy Birthday Dunkey
Happy Birthday mate, I hope your celebrating your birthday up there. We all miss you so much, more than you will ever know. You should be here with us celebrating your birthday. Life is cruel. We are all thinking of you today and we won't stop not until we close our eyes tonight. Please let Nanny know you are safe and that you arrived safely. She will be crying so much over you today and she will be in so much pain, because its her boys birthday. We will all have you on our minds. Mummy said she is coming on here to say happy birthday. Mummy misses you so much and loves you more than you will ever know. Toni misses you more than ever as well and she loves you so much. I hope your safe up there. And enjoying your birthday. Today I put Versace Blue Jeans on because it reminds me so much of you. All day when I smell myself, I will think you are here with me. Anyway I just want to say that I love you so much and your one of the best uncles in the world. All My Love, Sleep Tight and God Bless. I love you always love Davey XXX HAPPY BIRTHDAY
I Miss You so Much Dunkey
Hi Dunk, I just wanted to say hi and that I missed you so much, more than anything in the whole world. I often think of when I was younger and I used to see you up Nannys, looking smart and I was so proud to call you my uncle. We have so many memories and I hope you relieve them as much as I do. I think of them all the time. Like when you wanted the same trainers as me and the same Gucci shoes as me and the same tracksuit bottoms as me, and you sent me out with your bank card to buy them and do you remember I lost your bank card and I was so scared to come and tell you that I had lost it. I was so worried, I told Nanny to tell you and when she told you, you smiled and called me in and gave me a big cuddle and said, 'dont be silly boy, accidents happen. Main thing is, you got my bits'. We had such long and deep converstions in the hospital in the last few weeks and I have never told anyone waht we spoke about and I never will. I will keep it to myself. That is our secret and I wont tell anybody, not ever. I will keep it and not speak about it to anyone until my dying day, when we meet again. I love you so much and I cant wait for us to see eachother again. Anyway remember I love you. Please look after Mummy, Nanny, Toni, John, Joanne, Sally and Bonnie. We all miss you so much. God Bless Dunk. All my Love Davey XXX
Poem to John's Beautiful Mother
This Poem is to Johns Beautiful Mum from Her Only Son John
My Mum is a survivor,
Or so I've heard it said.
But I can hear her crying at night,
When all others are in bed.
I watch her lay awake at night,
And go to hold her hand.
She doesn't know I'm with her,
To help her understand.
But like the sands on the beach,
That never wash away...
I watch over my surviving mum,
Who thinks of me each day.
She wears a smile for others...
A smile of disguise!
But through Heaven's door I see,
Tears flowing from her eyes.
My mum tries to cope with death,
To keep my memory alive.
But anyone who knows her knows,
It is her way to survive.
As I watch over my surviving mum,
Through Heaven's open door...
I try to tell her that angels,
Protect me forevermore.
I know that doesn't help her...
Or ease the burden she bears.
So if you get a chance, go visit her...
And show her that you care.
For no matter what she says...
No matter what she feels,
My surviving mum has a broken heart,
That time won't ever heal.
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